If you continuously try to seek public approval of all the things you do in life, you will end up lost and exhausted. Be true to yourself. And change if you have to - if you feel like "I'm not that person anymore".
Alhamdulillah ya Allah...it was a beeaaautiful Ramadhan month for us, first time with Shahmeer and first time managing everything in our own house. I was initially very scared that I couldn't handle the overwhelming responsibility of fasting and preparing sahur on top of taking care of my baby and work, but Allah gave me all the power that I managed to survive and fulfill all my duties. Thank you, Allah..:)
S: "OMG babe tomorrow is Eid! We must clean the house!"
(S and I cleaned and tidied up each and every corner of our house for half a day, then did all the laundry, water the plants)
D: "Babyyyy our house looks so cleaaaan yayyyy."
D: "So who's coming to our house tomorrow?"
S: "No one."
Listening does not only require you to open your ears, but also your heart and mind. Because the intention to listen is not to simply reply, but to understand and fulfill. The best people are those who greatly listen to other people. Because other people matter.